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My Promises To You – #MickeyTurning4

It was Wednesday, 24th Sept 2014, a day just after Mahalaya. My mom and dad, my MIL everyone were panicking, my hubby’s face was like; the doctor would take him to the OT, not me. But I was relaxed, cool and calm. I had no anxiety rather I was excited! I could hear my own heartbeat and yes it was beating fast. 🙂
It was 9.52 am in the morning and I heard his cry for the first time. The doctor said, ‘Lord Shiva has come to your place’ 🙂
As it was after Mahalaya and by that time, ‘Debi Pokkho’ had started already. Hence, we were expecting Ma Durga, but Ma had already sent his hubby to us. 🙂 🙂
We named him – ‘Rishaan’ that means a good human being and another name of Lord Shiva of course.
From that day, my motherhood journey has started. For me it was not an easy job at all. Life always brings new challenges to me and I know I can hit the six always. 🙂 🙂
In my life I have taken all the decisions in a fraction of second. At the age of 25, I went to my dad and said, ‘I have to marry now’. At 26, I became a mother. So things were fast and I didn’t take much time though these were the most important decisions of my life.

Should I sing that song –

Main aisa kyun hoon,
Main jaisa hoon main waisa kyun hoon’

Trust me, if I start telling you my life story, it will be a hit Bollywood movie for sure.

But now life is different. I think twice before taking a decision. Now at the weekends, I spend my time with my son especially. I don’t react on everything now. I am trying to remove my ‘short-tempered’ tag. And I know patience is the only key to handle his tantrum.
Mickey, my son is turning 4 today and I want all your blessings for him. 🙂

Happy Birthday Son
Source: google

So today I would like to promise few things to him. I know now he is too small to understand all these but when he will grow up, I will share it with him.
My First Promise: I will never tell you lies. Because I believe things can be explained in a different way. We don’t need to hide things from our kids.
My 2nd Promise: I will guide you to take your own decisions. I am living a life by my own T&C so I want same for you also. You may fall but that will help you to rise again.
My 3rd Promise:  I will never interfere in your life. Everyone needs privacy and we should understand that. Kids need the parents most but when they grow up they have their own life. As a parent what we can do is to support them, motivate them and encourage them to do well in life.
My 4th Promise: I will help you to fulfill your dream. You don’t have to run in the rat race. Follow your passion and make it your profession. You will be the happiest person then.
My 5th Promise: The most important Mantra of life is to be a good human being. Be kind, be honest and be humble. Do good with others and help people always. I will try to give you the best life lessons.
So today, we have planned for a small celebration! I will share the pics with you all. 🙂

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28 Comments

  1. Hi Sayeri,

    What a lovely post. The most beautiful of human relationship is the relationship between a mother and her children. It is pure, affectionate and always giving in nature. You have written a beautiful post.

    Thanks for sharing, have great day. 🙂

  2. these are very important mistakes that parents make when they’re too interfering or forceful it pushes the child away

  3. These are some really important promises to make! Giving our child their space and privacy is important.

  4. How honest this is Sayeri. May God bless Mickey and yea may he follow his passion and not the rat race:)

  5. These are so perfect and simply important promises to made to the champ!! Happy Birthday Big Boy !!

  6. This is so beautiful! Many Birthday wishes to Mickey!
    With such beautiful promises to guide him through life, he is going to grow up to be a wonderful, kind and thoughtful man.
    Best wishes and Blessings to him

  7. Every parent should make these promises to their child. Wish the champ a very Happy Birthday! 🙂

  8. The “telling lies, No Papa ” seems the most difficult part though I am sure there are ways around that too 🙂

  9. The post is written very well. Happy bday to your cute son! Congrats to you

  10. uttpalkhot says:

    Birthday greeting dear. Your mom is a great blogger and she loves you a lot. Keep smiling.

    UK

  11. Such an emotional post Sayeri. God bless Mickey n a very happy birthday to him. Loved reading it.

  12. You remind me of my time. Your promises are what every parent should make for kids happiness and healthy growth

  13. Pavneet says:

    So beautifully written can’t agree more on the promises you made . A very happy birthday to your son and congratulations to you

  14. Very nice promises. Add one thing….that is teach him good yoga n asanas that will care for him even when the unnecessary stress would try to affect him.

    Like an automatic machine those techniques will help Rishaan stay hill like strong both consciously and the most important subconsciously.

  15. Beautiful words.. a very happy Birthday to the cutie boy. God Bless

  16. Lovely post as always. U hv expressed your heart out

  17. Amazing and beautiful post. Very important promises to consider. Beautifully expressed the thoughts.

  18. Being a parent I too had promised with my kids similar like this, hope I can fulfil this for life.
    Happy birthday to your cutie pie son

  19. Dr. Surbhi Prapanna says:

    beautiful post, you both shared amazing bond. god bless little one.

  20. I can relate to this post as my son is turning 5 soon. I loved the way you portrayed your feeling n promises to ur kiddo. Lots of blessing to little kiddo on his 4th bday.

  21. jhilmildsaha says:

    Such a beautiful post. Being parents i think we should adhere to certain promises for our children and follow those throughout our lifetime

  22. You wrote so beautifully! I was lost in your story while reading this post! I really appreciate the promises you made as I expected the same from my parents! 😛

  23. Such beautiful promises, Sayeri. I am sure your son will be very proud of you while reading this in future. #surreads

  24. happy birthday big boy and many congrats to parents. my boy just turned 9 and i can imagine how you must be feeling.

  25. What a heartfelt letter to your son. I loved reading it. My daughter was born on Navratri day 4 we named her Rudrani and yes I am as much short tempered and could so relate to these promises.

  26. Akanksha Goel says:

    These are best promises you made to your child and also some of the best advise. You two share a beautiful bond. Blessings for your child.

  27. What a beautiful bond you duo share, indeed inspiring motherhood Journey you have. These promises will definitely make your boy proud of you

  28. I like all th epromises you made to your little boy <3 It's wonderful that your first pledge was to never to lie to him !

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